The life partner (Part 14)
I received a question from one of my readers and I feel obliged to answer publicly for the benefit of all. Here is his question: "I find that in answering this question on virginity, you've done it correctly but at 50% because you're talking about girls, but what about the boys?”
Answer: Is the bible interested in boys’ virginity? The answer is "Yes." In the book of Revelation, John tells us what God showed him in a vision. He saw God's throne and around him were one hundred forty-four thousand men who were redeemed from the earth. In Revelation 14: 4 it says, "These are they which were not defiled with women, for they are virgins; they follow the Lamb wherever he goes. These were redeemed from among men, being the firstfruits unto God and to the Lamb ".
If you read this message, and you are a virgin boy, you also have a wealth you should protect jealously. Many men are sexually dissatisfied because their wives do not give them the pleasure they enjoyed with the girls who slept with them before. The first girl you will know will remain in your memory all your life and something spiritual happened between you. By the way I have to say that some men are possessed by demons they had during sexual intercourse with different girls. This is why Paul said that he who binds to a prostitute becomes one body and one flesh with her (1 Corinthians 6: 16). The sexual act must be done in marriage because the girl you are looking for your pleasure probably belongs to someone else. Find out which one is yours and marry her officially before sleeping with her.
Back to the theme of the day. If you have read the teaching from the beginning, you understood the biblical meaning and the importance of the covenant. According to Jesus, a man is not allowed to divorce his wife unless his wife has sexually cheated him (Matthew 19: 9). This does not mean you should necessarily divorce but it would be preferable if there could be some forgiveness and reconciliation.
In writing to the Corinthians, Paul showed that apart infidelity, there is another cause of separation. This is the case of a couple where one partner is a believer and the other does not believe. It may happen that the unbelieving husband is opposed to the faith of his wife and decides to leave her or if the wife who is not a believer decides to leave her believing husband. If the unbelieving partner separates, what would happen to the believing partner? Can we talk of separation in this case? The answer is in the fifteenth teaching.
Chris Ndikumana
